{"id":136,"date":"2026-09-10T17:59:29","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T17:59:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/?p=136"},"modified":"2026-09-10T17:59:29","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T17:59:29","slug":"the-unimaginable-happened","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/2026\/09\/10\/the-unimaginable-happened\/","title":{"rendered":"The unimaginable happened"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Matt,<\/p>\n<p>I hope you&#8217;ll take this as an opportunity to understand how many of us felt after being let go without any explanation, without a PIP, and frankly without a shred of empathy. Our performance was questioned without any grounds, without so much as a negative review to point to.<\/p>\n<p>Many of us also felt betrayed, and the trust that was broken hasn&#8217;t come back. Some of us hide it better than others, but it stays with you. It&#8217;s rather odd how quickly people treat you as though you never existed once you&#8217;re out the door, isn&#8217;t it? I imagine you&#8217;re getting a taste of that now.<\/p>\n<p>In your case, at least, there&#8217;s no financial sting. Being sidelined still hurts, of course, but the salary keeps coming. Some of the people you let go weren&#8217;t even given a proper severance after five, even ten years&#8217; service.<\/p>\n<p>My advice, for what it&#8217;s worth: take some time off, have a bit of fun, enjoy the money, learn from your mistakes, and try to find a little more empathy for the people you hurt along the way.<\/p>\n<p>PS: Don&#8217;t get me wrong. I do think people who underperform should be let go. My point is simply that how it&#8217;s done matters. A proper conversation, a fair chance to improve, and a bit of basic decency go a long way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Matt, I hope you&#8217;ll take this as an opportunity to understand how many of us felt after being let go without any explanation, without a PIP, and frankly without a shred of empathy. Our performance was questioned without any grounds, without so much as a negative review to point to. Many of us also &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/2026\/09\/10\/the-unimaginable-happened\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The unimaginable happened&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=136"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":137,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136\/revisions\/137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/antimattic.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}